31/May/2006Though Adam was a friend of mine, I did not know him well Together we went traveling, as we received the call I sit before my only candle, but its so little light to find my way When we parted we were laughing still, as our goodbyes were said I sit before my only candle, like a pilgrim sits beside the way Though Adam was a friend of mine, I did not know him long I’m holding out my only candle, though its so little light to find my way –Jackson Browne Today the expat community is abuzz with shock and sadness upon learning of the death of Shawn Matthews, author of the Korea Life Blog and more recently the China Life Blog. I only knew Shawn from his writing, but he was the type of person I enjoyed sharing adventure with, albeit vicariously. Even as a stranger, I somehow feel diminshed by his loss. I’m not sure how to explain that, but I know on my dark days far from family and friends, I have often been comforted by the words and kind thoughts of my fellow bloggers. Shawn was surrounded by people who loved him, and yet he was still beyond their reach. As others have said, suicide is incredibly selfish. Whatever pain Shawn was expericing was not escaped, merely transferred to friends and family. But I’m not going to judge, only regret that Shawn chose to stop singing in the middle of his song. And his voice will always be missed by those he left behind. |
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A very moving and eloquent post, John.
Comment by Nathan B. — 31/May/2006 @ 10:36 pm
You have sent me links to several Korean blogs but I don’t recall if his was one of them. I am glad I cannot make a mental connection to him. All death is sad but a suicide is just so much worse. Lord I feel for his mother.
Comment by Carol — 01/June/2006 @ 9:16 pm